Do you own or rent? Cuz it might not be you, either, π and I spend enough money in Buffalo and Erie county over the course of every year for it to be "we."
My 82 year old mom was alone this Christmas because of the storm. In fact, she couldn't open the doors to her house for over two days. It's "we."
I'm sorry you hate Jersey so much. I feel the same way about Jersey as I do Buffalo. They are both a lot nicer than their reputations (for the most part) and that impression is just fine cuz it keeps the jag-offs away.