Bursa pain gets reflected not in the shoulder but in the nerve that follows down the arm. its easily seen on a sonogram (better than radioactive MRi or CT)
Sorry, meant Aleve. The naproxen is easier to take just a couple times a day. I had the problem from tennis (since stopped playing) but it worked best.
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