2nd, 3rd and 4th efforts win hockey games.
Two mice fell into a bucket of cream. The first mouse, he swam and swam and swam. But recognizing the situation was hopeless, when his arms and legs tired he gave up, accepted his fate and his lifeless body sank to the bottom of the bucket.
The second mouse also swam and swam and swam, his little arms and legs tired and he too recognized the situation was hopeless. However, this mouse, he never gave up... he kept swimming and fighting. In fact, he fought so hard that he churned that cream into butter and walked out of the bucket.
When you step out on the ice, the question to ask yourself isn't "Which mouse am I?"... instead ask yourself "Which mouse do I want to be?".