‘“I think for me… It was really frustrating, really tough biting your tongue on the bench when you didn’t agree with something the referee did. That would drive me crazy sometimes,” Patrick said. “Lindy would all year long have to say, ‘Settle down and quit yelling at the refs.’ I know they have the toughest job in the world, and they are good at what they do, but in the heat of the battle you sometimes forget that.”‘