... Posted October 1, 2019 Report Share Posted October 1, 2019 10 minutes ago, shrader said: Unfortunately, I'd bet that far too often, the person they look to the most for that help is the one who is probably the worst equipped to provide it, the husband. Hello, can of worms. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ddaryl Posted October 1, 2019 Report Share Posted October 1, 2019 that's a tough pill to swallow...…. Very sad an unfortunate... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shrader Posted October 1, 2019 Report Share Posted October 1, 2019 9 minutes ago, ... said: Hello, can of worms. None intended. It was probably worded poorly, but the husband's going through it too. If his mind's not in the right place either, things could take a wrong turn. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
... Posted October 1, 2019 Report Share Posted October 1, 2019 Just now, shrader said: None intended. It was probably worded poorly, but the husband's going through it too. If his mind's not in the right place either, things could take a wrong turn. That's a little better. In a good relationship, the first place you would go for solidarity is your spouse, at least in my world. I don't know what you mean by "a wrong turn", though, unless you're talking about not-good people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shrader Posted October 1, 2019 Report Share Posted October 1, 2019 18 minutes ago, ... said: That's a little better. In a good relationship, the first place you would go for solidarity is your spouse, at least in my world. I don't know what you mean by "a wrong turn", though, unless you're talking about not-good people. I mean that as generally as possible. But to clarify it slightly, these kind of things can end relationships, even the strong ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scottysabres Posted October 1, 2019 Report Share Posted October 1, 2019 5 hours ago, pi2000 said: As a father of 2, one of which came very very early and spent weeks in the NICU... this is absolutely heartbreaking. I can't even imagine the pain they're in right now. My youngest was the same. NICU as well for 4 weeks. Hope you don't mind pi, but God bless. And for Jeremy and Molly, my wife and I offer our deep condolences. Truly heartbreaking. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weave Posted October 1, 2019 Report Share Posted October 1, 2019 2 hours ago, Gatorman0519 said: We had that happen with one. It was hell enough. I cannot imagine losing 4. Same. The grief was brutal with one. I can't imagine going through it 3 more times over the span of days. I hope they have a good support system. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabres Fan in NS Posted October 1, 2019 Report Share Posted October 1, 2019 I am not a father and never had to go through anything like this, but I can feel their pain. Prayers said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Two or less Posted October 1, 2019 Report Share Posted October 1, 2019 I went to work a bit late today and i listen to WGR literally all day long, and i heard this on my way to work. My jaw dropped. My thoughts and prayers are with Jeremy, his wife and their entire family. So sad. I don't know Jeremy beyond his voice on the radio but that was tough to take this morning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darksabre Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 In another awful turn for Jeremy and his family, his mother has been killed in a car crash caused by a driver in an unregistered vehicle 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildCard Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 Jesus man, that poor guy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darksabre Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 3 minutes ago, WildCard said: Jesus man, that poor guy. Absolutely heartbreaking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taro T Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 What an awful 3-4 months. Condolences to him and his family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brawndo Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 His Family was very close to Luca Calanni, who died of the flu last week as well. I cannot imagine going through what he has had to deal with the past few months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eleven Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 This is too much ***** for one family to bear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nfreeman Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 Awful. God bless him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 Words fail. My prayers will be said for Jeremy and his family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FogBat Posted January 25, 2020 Report Share Posted January 25, 2020 On 10/1/2019 at 4:46 PM, shrader said: None intended. It was probably worded poorly, but the husband's going through it too. If his mind's not in the right place either, things could take a wrong turn. That was the straw that broke my camel's back a few years ago. It was bad enough that I didn't know how to cope with my besetting sins. But when my wife had her miscarriage after so many years of trying, it sent me into a tailspin. I had already been struggling with a porn addiction off and on, but it went hyperactive. I even started talking to other women online, and definitely not for the right reasons. Other things came along too. Long of it and the short of it was that when my wife found out, she was obviously and rightfully livid. Once she calmed down, she told me to arrange to meet with our pastor if I wanted to save our marriage (which I did). Changes didn't come overnight, but they did. We even wound up renewing our wedding vows - and we're still together after over 22 years of marriage. I hope that if Jeremy reads this, he could take some comfort from a man who lost everything in one day; his 10 children, and all of his possessions. That man was Job. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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